When people have 30 Days to Live they normally assess their life. They either are content saying they have had a good life or they are full of regrets at unfulfilled dreams. Today, I’d like to give you simple questions to help you assess your life and determine if there are changes you need to make now. Let’s live like we’re dying.
Here are a few questions organized by the different areas of your life to help you get started.
1. Do I generally feel happy? – I know “happiness” is a relevant term but be honest with yourself…do you feel happy most days?
If the answer is no, or I’m not sure then you must find out why and fix it. If you are truly depressed first seek prayer and healing and then please find out if there’s a medical condition causing it. If you’re depressed because you’re physically sick in some other way, then do the same, prayer and medicine. Yes, while you’re waiting for a miracle God uses medicine too.
Most often happiness is a choice. You have to choose not to sweat the small stuff. Usually we get upset over silly little things that won’t mean anything 1,000 years from now. Sometimes the issue may financial pressure or relationship problems. I’ll cover those tomorrow.
2. What do you do to bring fun and joy into your life?
We all need activities and people that refresh us and bring joy to us. Spend extra time playing with the kids, see the new movie, read a book, pray longer, go for a walk outside, exercise…what works for you? Take the time to recharge your emotional battery.
A cheerful heart is good medicine,but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength. – Proverbs 17:22
3. Do I feel fulfilled and motivated by my career? (School if you’re a student.)
I’ve had those jobs where I dreaded getting up to go to work. The people were difficult, there was no room for promotion, the money wasn’t good etc. It drove me to go back to school at 30 years old. Education and training is a key to greater career fulfillment.
A house is built by wisdom and becomes strong through good sense. Through knowledge its rooms are filled with all sorts of precious riches and valuables. – Proverbs 24:3-4
Occasionally you have the degree and that’s not the issue. I still say studying a new field or getting training for a promotion may be the answer but…
If you hate your job, do something about it. I know you need to pay the bills, keep the job you have now and start looking for another. It’s always easier to look while you have a job so you won’t settle again for new job you’ll hate in a year. Networking with people you know is key. Tell them what you’re interested in and see if they know someone in that field.
For 10 years I worked in the technology field in graphic design and the Internet (when it was first starting.) I loved it for 9 years! Then it began to seem meaningless to me. I realized that I wanted to be in ministry to help people and began to move towards that goal.
If you like your career or company but feel capped because there is no advancement or your bored doing the same thing for years, education can break that cycle also. It could be a simple as more in-house training or taking an on-line certification.
The best advice I can give someone is to do something you feel passionately about. You will spend a third of your life at you job so make sure it’s fulfilling.
If you’re a student then school IS your career. Put your effort into it. If you don’t like your major, change. The discipline you learn in school will to a large degree, determine how successful you will be in your career. Now I know some people aren’t book people, then do vocational training and learn a trade.
Whether you are a student, a supervisor, a business owner, a public servant or a long-time employee, where you are right now is your mission field. That’s right we can feel much more fulfilled when we look through eternal eyes to see that God has us there for a reason…to CONNECT OTHERS to Christ!
More assessments tomorrow.
Lord, help me to be honest with myself about life. Help me to not be so negative or worried about small issues. Remind me to do activities that recharge me emotionally and spiritually. Give me the courage to make the career changes I need to make. Help me to see where I am as a mission field you sent me to and give me the boldness to speak when you open opportunities. Lord make me the person you created me to be. In Jesus’ name, amen.
- Am I in the job the Lord wants me in?
- Do I feel challenged and fulfilled by my career choice?
- Do one activity that bring you joy this week.