30 Days to Live – Day 24: Reality

Today the reality of 30 Days to Live hit us in a very personal way.  My wife (Pastor Joanne) found out that her mom (Fran) has terminal cancer.  As Joanne sat in the hospital room with her mom and other family members, the doctor told Fran to “get her affairs in order.”  Her response was, “So this is a death sentence.”  It is one thing to be writing about facing your final days on this earth it’s another when death actually is right in front of you with someone you care about.

While we are praying and asking for God to do a miracle, first responsibility is to make sure your loved one is ready for life after death.  Fran has believed in God and has been attended church regularly so there was no need to convince her of her need for God’s forgiveness.  Instead Joanne focused on forgiving others.

The truth is we are all under a death sentence.  Maybe not as brutal and short as the one my mother-in-law just received, but this life is short and we are not promised tomorrow.  We must all “get our affairs in order” to make sure we are ready to meet our Savior.  One place people usually overlook is forgiving those who have hurt you.

As we prepare for the next life we want our sins to be forgiven and if we want to be forgiven for our sins we must forgive others. When the disciples asked Jesus to teach them how to pray He gave us an example that has become called The Lord’s Prayer.  In it Jesus prays this:

Forgive us our sins, as we have forgiven those who sin against us. – Matthew 6:12

As Jesus was teaching His disciples to pray effectively He knew that our prayers are useless if we refuse to forgive others.

Do not condemn others, or it will all come back against you. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven. – Luke 6:37

Why is this such a big deal to God?  Because HE is the Righteous Judge.  If we decide to judge others we are in effect saying we want to sit on God’s throne and do His job.  He has never tolerated that, just ask an angel named Lucifer.

Prayer

Pray this 3 Step Forgiveness Process:

  1. I take back any authority I gave the devil in my life through unforgiveness, especially towards ______ for what they did to me.
  2. I choose to forgive this person for what they did to me.
  3. I ask you God to help me to forgive this person, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Thoughts

  • Who has hurt me?
  • Have I chosen to forgiven them?

Action

  • Forgive all the people who have hurt you, now.

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Written May 2010: prayers for Fran and our family gratefully accepted.
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Sand Dollars

One of the areas that is thought about the least yet impacted the most during a person’s last 30 Days on this planet is their finances.  In their last month most people stop thinking about paying their bills, saving their money or earning that first million.  Their thoughts instead turn to their relationships, their regrets or their eternal home. If they do think about money, those thoughts are usually motivated by concern for a loved one.  There is either a desire not to leave a financial burden to their families or instructions on how to obtain inheritance carefully set aside for those they love.

No, with 30 Days to live there is no longer a hustle and bustle to earn but an urgency to give.  People become generous, even frivolous at times with money.  No longer looking at money as the goal but as a tool to bring some pleasure to themselves and others with their fleeting few days.  When we think about it, isn’t that the true purpose of money?  It is at best a temporary tool to make life better while we’re here.

“Anyone who listens to my teaching and follows it is wise, like a person who builds a house on solid rock.  Though the rain comes in torrents and the floodwaters rise and the winds beat against that house, it won’t collapse because it is built on bedrock.  But anyone who hears my teaching and doesn’t obey it is foolish, like a person who builds a house on sand.  When the rains and floods come and the winds beat against that house, it will collapse with a mighty crash.” – Matthew 7:24-27

We shouldn’t build our lives on money or around obtaining it because it’s temporary.  Sand Dollars is what they are.  (No, not the kind on the beach I’m cleverly using the same wording.) The money we have is made of sand, here a little while then washed away.  Ask anyone who has build their life on the pursuit of money…they will tell you in the last 30 days of life it’s meaningless.  To be wise and build on the rock we must look at what God says about money.

How, begin by tithing.  By giving God back the first portion of all He has given us, we are in fact acknowledging that He is the giver of all we have.

“You have cheated me of the tithes and offerings due to me. You are under a curse, for your whole nation has been cheating me. Bring all the tithes into the storehouse so there will be enough food in my Temple. If you do,” says the Lord of Heaven’s Armies, “I will open the windows of heaven for you. I will pour out a blessing so great you won’t have enough room to take it in! Try it! Put me to the test! – Malachi 3:8-10

The tithe doesn’t belong to us.  It is the Lord’s.  He doesn’t tell us to give it but to bring it because it belongs to Him.  After that, ask God what else to give and be generous.  It isn’t always money He wants but a giving attitude, open your home, give rides or serve in church.  A great way is to give even AFTER you have gone.  People with 30 Days to Live often think of that also.

Remember held money is temporary money. Money given is a seed. A seed that can sprout endlessly all the way into eternity.

Some ways to build God’s Kingdom after you depart this planet are:

  • Take out a low-cost, term life insurance policy with the your local church as the beneficiary. (Please do this after providing one for your family, not before.)
  • Set your estate up to tithe to your local church as your assets are distributed.
  • Name the charity of your choice with a lump sum in your will. (Please see your attorney to set up these last two.)

By doing any of these your finances will actually be building the Kingdom of God on the earth even after you’ve gone on to glory!

Prayer

Dear Jesus, thank you for every good thing you’ve given me in my life.  My home, job all the money I have come from you.  Help me to always acknowledge you as my Lord through tithing then help me to be generous with what remains.  I don’t want to be controlled by money but use it as a tool for your Kingdom.

Thoughts for Today

  • How often do I think about money?  Is my life dominated by the need for more money, the pressure to pay bills or the desire to have certain lifestyle?
  • Do I put God first in my finances?

Action List

  • If you’re not tithing, start now..
  • If you area tither, pray about ways you can be more generous.
  • Set up a plan to give to work of God (such as your local church) after your death.